
Paul P. Marchese
A trusted counselor to North Shore families for more than three decades, Paul guides clients through estate planning, trusts, and probate with the patience and precision that complex family wealth demands.
Read full bioMarchese & Maynard, LLP assists Manhasset families with trusts for estate planning, asset protection, and Medicaid eligibility. Our attorneys handle funding, trustee selection, and compliance with New York Estates, Powers and Trusts Law.

Manhasset sits on the North Shore, where property values routinely exceed two million dollars and families face New York's estate tax threshold. That combination drives demand for trusts that shelter assets, avoid probate, and preserve eligibility for government benefits. We draft revocable living trusts, irrevocable Medicaid Asset Protection Trusts, and Supplemental Needs Trusts tailored to each client's situation. The irony is that clients who need trusts most are often the ones who delay longest, convinced their estate isn't quite complicated enough yet.
Most clients assume a trust is finished once the document is signed. In practice, an unfunded trust is worthless. We had a Manhasset client whose revocable living trust sat empty for three years because no one transferred the deed or updated beneficiary forms. When he became incapacitated, his family ended up in guardianship court anyway.

You open a letter from your accountant estimating your estate at seven million dollars, and you realize you're over the New York threshold. The question may not be whether a trust is appropriate. It's which type protects your home, avoids probate, and keeps you eligible for Medicaid if long-term care becomes necessary. We walk through asset inventory, family dynamics, and tax exposure before recommending a structure.
Revocable trusts offer flexibility but zero asset protection. Irrevocable trusts can help protect assets from creditors and Medicaid spend-down, yet you typically surrender direct control. Under New York law, a self-settled irrevocable trust generally does not shield assets from the grantor's creditors, meaning that if you are the creator and a discretionary beneficiary, your creditors can reach the maximum amount the trustee could distribute to you. The honest answer is that no single trust solves every problem, and clients who expect both complete control and bulletproof protection will be disappointed by the trade-offs built into New York law.

We serve families in Manhasset, Great Neck, Port Washington, and across Nassau County. Our attorneys draft revocable living trusts, irrevocable Medicaid Asset Protection Trusts, Supplemental Needs Trusts, and irrevocable life insurance trusts. Each engagement includes conflict check, asset discovery, draft review, execution ceremony, and a funding checklist that covers deeds, beneficiary designations, and account retitling. The real risk isn't choosing the wrong trust structure, it's failing to fund the trust properly or assuming the document alone provides protection without follow-through on retitling and beneficiary updates.
Clients often ask whether they need a corporate trustee or whether a family member will suffice. The answer depends on the complexity of the assets and the family's willingness to handle annual accounting, tax filings, and investment oversight. We've seen sibling disputes erupt over distribution timing, and we've watched corporate trustees deliver flawless compliance at a cost that surprised no one who read the fee schedule upfront.

Nursing home costs in Nassau County can be substantial, and Medicaid may impose a look-back period on asset transfers. An irrevocable Medicaid Asset Protection Trust can help protect your home and other assets from spend-down requirements, but typically only if you establish it well before you need care. We draft these trusts with distribution standards that preserve eligibility while allowing limited access for the grantor's benefit.
One pattern we see consistently is clients waiting until a health crisis to explore Medicaid planning. At that point, the sixty-month clock has already started ticking, and the trust offers no immediate protection. A client of ours transferred her Manhasset home into a MAPT in 2019, confident she had time. She needed skilled nursing in 2023, applied for Medicaid in early 2024, and discovered she would face a transfer penalty period because the five-year look-back period is calculated from the date of the Medicaid application, and the transfer had occurred within that window. She paid privately during the resulting penalty period because the math was unforgiving. Families often layer a MAPT with tailored Manhasset asset protection strategies and align the trust with an updated will for Manhasset residents so nothing falls through the cracks.
Two partners. One standard of care. Every plan is drafted, reviewed, and signed under their direct guidance.

A trusted counselor to North Shore families for more than three decades, Paul guides clients through estate planning, trusts, and probate with the patience and precision that complex family wealth demands.
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Robin brings decades of experience and a client-centered approach to elder law, Medicaid planning, and guardianship matters, advocating for families during the most consequential transitions of their lives.
Read full bio“Robin and Paul walked our family through a trust restructure after my father's stroke. They explained every clause in plain language and the Nassau County Surrogate filings closed without a single delay.”
“We finally have a real estate plan, not a binder collecting dust. The team made sure our co-op shares were actually transferred into the trust. Worth every minute of the consultation.”
“After two other attorneys gave us conflicting Medicaid advice, Marchese and Maynard laid out the lookback timeline on paper and built a plan that protected our home. Calm, precise, and patient.”
“Probate could have been a nightmare. They handled the executor paperwork, creditor notices, and a contested distribution without us ever having to argue with family. Genuine pros.”
“Paul drafted our wills, healthcare proxies, and powers of attorney in a single afternoon, and the bank accepted the POA without a single follow up call. That alone tells you they know what they are doing.”
“Trusted, local, and responsive. Robin took my call on a Friday afternoon when I was panicking about my mother's nursing home admission. By Monday we had a clear plan and the right documents in motion.”
Revocable trusts become irrevocable at death, triggering the trustee's duty to distribute assets per the trust terms. The process skips probate but still requires tax filings, addressing known creditor claims, and beneficiary accounting before final distribution.
A revocable trust locks at death and the successor trustee steps in to execute what's written. Assets get valued, outstanding debts are resolved, and beneficiaries receive accountings before final distribution. If real property or brokerage accounts sit in the trust, retitling happens without court oversight. The timeline can stretch longer than some families expect, often several months, because tax clearances and final accountings may take time even when beneficiaries want immediate access.
Revocable trusts offer flexibility and control during your lifetime, while irrevocable trusts provide asset protection and tax benefits by transferring ownership. The right choice depends on whether you prioritize control or protection from creditors and estate taxes.
Marchese & Maynard, LLP walks clients through the tradeoffs between these two structures based on what they're actually trying to accomplish. Revocable trusts let you modify terms, remove assets, or dissolve the arrangement entirely if circumstances change, which makes sense for younger families or those with evolving financial situations. Irrevocable trusts lock assets away, meaning you typically cannot reclaim them or change beneficiaries without meeting specific statutory requirements, such as the written consent of the creator and all beneficiaries under New York law. That permanence creates a legal barrier between the assets and future creditors, lawsuits, or estate tax calculations. One thing we've noticed is that clients often assume irrevocable means untouchable forever, but there are limited mechanisms to modify terms if all parties agree and state law permits it.
Marchese & Maynard, LLP reviews your asset composition, family dynamics, and long-term goals to determine which structure aligns with your estate plan. If you're weighing control against protection, schedule a consultation to map out the practical consequences of each option for your situation.
Special needs trusts preserve government benefit eligibility while supplementing care costs. Effectiveness can depend on precise drafting that distinguishes supplemental from support obligations, particularly around housing and food considerations.
Marchese & Maynard, LLP structures special needs trusts to protect beneficiaries who receive SSI, Medicaid, or other means-tested benefits without triggering disqualification. The distinction between first-party trusts (funded with the beneficiary's own assets, often from settlements or inheritances) and third-party trusts (funded by parents or relatives) determines both the drafting requirements and the payback provisions that apply after the beneficiary passes. One thing that catches families off guard is how narrow the spending categories are. Distributions for vacations or entertainment typically work fine, but paying rent directly can jeopardize SSI eligibility in ways that aren't immediately obvious.
Marchese & Maynard, LLP walks Manhasset families through the benefit coordination analysis before drafting, because a trust that looks protective on paper can still disqualify a recipient if the language around in-kind support isn't airtight. If your family is managing an inheritance or settlement for someone receiving public benefits, schedule a consultation so we can map out whether a first-party or third-party structure fits your situation and what the actual spending limitations will be once the trust is funded.
A New York trust may retain protective features after relocation if structured appropriately, though creditor protection can depend on trust type and whether the new state recognizes its terms. Irrevocable trusts offer stronger protection than revocable ones across state lines.
One thing that catches people off guard is how state residency changes interact with existing trust protections. If the trust was properly drafted as irrevocable under New York law, its asset protection features may be recognized in many cases. Revocable trusts generally offer limited creditor protection regardless of where you live. The complication arises when the new state has different rules about spendthrift provisions or homestead exemptions. If you're planning a move and creditor shielding matters, have an attorney review the trust document against the destination state's statutes before you establish residency there.
Family trustees often work well for simple estates but may struggle with investment decisions, conflict mediation, and New York fiduciary compliance. Professional co-trustees handle complexity while preserving family involvement in distributions.
Naming a sibling, adult child, or spouse as trustee feels natural, but the role carries legal exposure most families underestimate. A trustee in New York must maintain detailed records of every transaction, invest prudently under the Prudent Investor Act, remain neutral when beneficiaries disagree about distributions, and may be required to provide periodic accountings depending on the trust terms or beneficiary requests. One thing that catches families off guard is how quickly relationships fracture when one sibling controls another's inheritance. The trustee who seemed responsible at 45 may be overwhelmed at 70, or dealing with their own health issues when the trust needs active management. If the trust holds real estate, business interests, or exceeds a few hundred thousand dollars, a family member without financial or legal training will likely need to hire professionals anyway, adding cost without removing their personal liability.
A hybrid structure often works better: appoint a family member alongside a professional trustee, splitting emotional knowledge from technical compliance. The family trustee weighs in on distribution requests and timing, while the professional handles investments, tax filings, and documentation. If your trust involves special needs planning or asset protection, discuss co-trustee arrangements before finalizing the document.
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