
Paul P. Marchese
A trusted counselor to North Shore families for more than three decades, Paul guides clients through estate planning, trusts, and probate with the patience and precision that complex family wealth demands.
Read full bioMarchese & Maynard, LLP helps Manhasset families navigate Medicaid eligibility assessments, asset protection trusts, and incapacity planning when aging parents need long-term care. Our attorneys coordinate powers of attorney, special needs trusts, and conservatorship matters across Nassau County, guiding families through New York's complex elder law requirements.

Most families discover they need elder law help when a parent's capacity is already compromised, and the five-year look-back clock has been running unnoticed. The documents that prevent crisis must be signed before the crisis arrives.

If you have ever watched a parent sign a power of attorney at the kitchen table and felt relief that the hard conversation was over, you already understand the gap. The document exists. The bank rejects it three years later because the signature page is missing or the notary stamp is illegible.
The document that fails is usually the one nobody tested while the signer still had capacity. We have watched families discover that a valid power of attorney means nothing if the institution holding the account has never seen it and decides at 4:45 p.m. on a Friday that the format is unacceptable.

Before committing to this, one thing is worth saying plainly: the document that works today can fail tomorrow if the bank changes its internal policy or the care facility refuses to honor a clause nobody tested. We have watched families discover that a valid power of attorney means nothing if the institution receiving it applies a stricter standard than the statute requires, and by then the signer lacks capacity to execute a new one.
The trust that preserves the home starts a five-year look-back clock, and most families do not realize that clock resets with every uncompensated transfer, meaning a single gift to a grandchild three years in can push eligibility back to year eight. The planning that holds is the planning that accounts for what the family will actually do, not what they promise to stop doing. Nobody talks about the resets.

Medicaid eligibility in Nassau County is budget engineering, not form completion. Families that plan before crisis preserve homes, protect spousal income, and avoid penalty periods that force months of private pay.
Two partners. One standard of care. Every plan is drafted, reviewed, and signed under their direct guidance.

A trusted counselor to North Shore families for more than three decades, Paul guides clients through estate planning, trusts, and probate with the patience and precision that complex family wealth demands.
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Robin brings decades of experience and a client-centered approach to elder law, Medicaid planning, and guardianship matters, advocating for families during the most consequential transitions of their lives.
Read full bio“Robin and Paul walked our family through a trust restructure after my father's stroke. They explained every clause in plain language and the Nassau County Surrogate filings closed without a single delay.”
“We finally have a real estate plan, not a binder collecting dust. The team made sure our co-op shares were actually transferred into the trust. Worth every minute of the consultation.”
“After two other attorneys gave us conflicting Medicaid advice, Marchese and Maynard laid out the lookback timeline on paper and built a plan that protected our home. Calm, precise, and patient.”
“Probate could have been a nightmare. They handled the executor paperwork, creditor notices, and a contested distribution without us ever having to argue with family. Genuine pros.”
“Paul drafted our wills, healthcare proxies, and powers of attorney in a single afternoon, and the bank accepted the POA without a single follow up call. That alone tells you they know what they are doing.”
“Trusted, local, and responsive. Robin took my call on a Friday afternoon when I was panicking about my mother's nursing home admission. By Monday we had a clear plan and the right documents in motion.”
Hourly rates in the New York area typically range from a few hundred dollars per hour for routine consultations to higher rates for contested proceedings or court representation. Medicaid planning engagements often use flat fee structures that cover asset analysis, trust drafting, and application preparation as a package. Guardianship petitions, elder abuse intervention, and litigation matters usually bill hourly because the scope cannot be predicted at intake. Retainer amounts vary based on whether the matter involves document review alone or requires court filings, agency hearings, or multi-party negotiation.
Families wait until a parent can no longer sign. That single delay converts what should have been a kitchen-table document execution into a court-supervised guardianship proceeding that costs more, takes longer, and strips the family of control. We review capacity early, while the parent can still participate in decisions about their own future. Another pattern: assuming a power of attorney signed in 2008 will work at a 2025 bank. Financial institutions change their internal acceptance standards without notice. We pre-clear documents with the institutions that will actually need to honor them, so the authority exists when the crisis arrives. The third mistake is structural. Families treat Medicaid eligibility as something you apply for when care starts. The look-back period runs years deep. Asset transfers made without professional modeling trigger penalties that delay coverage exactly when it is needed most.
We walk families through the timing, the document standards, and the asset repositioning sequence before the need becomes urgent. The work is not about filling out an application. It is about building a structure that functions under pressure, in real time, with real institutions.
Elder law is a legal practice focused on aging, incapacity, and end-of-life planning that addresses Medicaid qualification, asset protection, decision-making authority, and care coordination. Effectiveness depends on timing, document execution standards, and alignment between estate plans and public benefit rules.
Elder law sits at the intersection of estate planning, public benefits qualification, and incapacity protection. It is not a single statute or filing type. The practice addresses how assets transfer, who makes decisions when capacity fades, how care gets funded without liquidating a home, and what happens when family members disagree about next steps. At Marchese & Maynard, LLP, we handle the full spectrum: Medicaid applications that require look-back analysis, irrevocable trust funding that starts eligibility clocks, powers of attorney drafted to survive bank scrutiny, and guardianship alternatives that keep families out of court.
The right moment is before the crisis forces a reactive filing. If a parent is still competent but showing early cognitive decline, that window allows us to execute powers of attorney, fund irrevocable trusts, and begin the look-back seasoning period while choices still exist. Wait until capacity is gone, and the family faces a guardianship petition instead. If long-term care is on the horizon within the next few years, we model spend-down scenarios and penalty exposure now, not after the nursing home admission when asset transfers trigger disqualification. Anyone who has watched a sibling empty a parent's account or a facility bill drain home equity in six months already knows the cost of waiting.
We also step in when existing estate plans were drafted decades ago and never stress-tested against current Medicaid rules, bank policies, or family dynamics. The documents may be signed, but if the financial institution rejects the power of attorney or the trust was never funded, the plan fails exactly when it is needed most.
Marchese & Maynard, LLP works with families in the Manhasset area who are navigating these transitions. We assess where a client stands in the eligibility timeline, what protective steps are still available, and which documents need immediate attention.
Marchese & Maynard, LLP serves families throughout Manhasset and surrounding Nassau County communities, providing elder law guidance directly at clients' homes or preferred meeting locations. From Great Neck to Port Washington, the team reaches Long Island families via Northern Boulevard, the Long Island Expressway, and Shelter Rock Road, meeting clients where they are most comfortable. Initial consultations typically include a five-year financial review and capacity assessment, conducted at the client's residence or care facility to accommodate mobility limitations and family schedules.
The firm coordinates with Nassau County care facilities, financial advisors, and family members across multiple locations to complete trust funding and Medicaid applications without requiring clients to travel during stressful transitions.
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